In Korean, the word “bap” (밥) means rice, but it also means much more. It’s a word full of warmth, love, and connection. You may have heard Koreans greet each other with, “Have you eaten?” (밥 먹었어요?) instead of just saying hello. That’s because food, especially rice, is a symbol of care in Korean culture.
Growing up in Korea, I heard the word “bap” every day. My mom would say, “Come eat bap!” when it was time for dinner, and my grandma always asked if I had eaten when I got home from school. It wasn’t just about eating. It meant, “Are you okay?” or “I care about you.”
In many Korean families, “bap” is more than just a food item. It’s a daily rhythm. Cooking rice in the morning, preparing side dishes, and sharing meals together is a way families stay close. Even when life gets busy, sitting down to eat together brings comfort and connection.
When I moved to U.S., I started to miss the simple smell of steamed rice. It reminded me of home—of laughter around the table, of chopsticks tapping plates, and the quiet peace that comes with a warm bowl of rice.
Now, when I cook rice in my own kitchen, it’s not just to feed myself. It’s a way to remember who I am and where I come from. It’s a reminder to slow down, take care of myself, and share something meaningful with others.
So next time you hear the word “bap” from your Korean friends, I hope you remember that it’s not just rice. It’s love. It’s comfort. It’s Korea, in a bowl.
Thanks for reading! I’d love to hear your food stories too. What dish reminds you of home? 🍲